Getting Pregnant at 35
Getting pregnant at 35 wasn’t that big of a problem in the past. This was when a lot of women prefer to stay at home so they can take care of the affairs of the house. Most couples also start trying to conceive the moment that they’re married. A lot of women back then didn’t have their careers as their number 1 focus. If they do have careers, that would have to take the backseat as soon as they’ve conceived.
But that’s not the case nowadays. Women nowadays are career-driven. They build on their careers and they are just as passionate as men. Times sure have changed especially in these challenging times wherein both husband and wife must work in order to have a comfortable life. So women work just as hard in order to climb the corporate ladder. The baby should have to wait.
This is why for most women, getting pregnant at 35 is the best option. That’s usually the time when they’ve already established a career and can take a few months off to have a baby. It could also be a time when they’ve already saved a lot of money so they can just stay home. Sounds familiar? There’s a good chance that this is you. But I’m sure you know now that getting pregnant is easier said than done.
You decided to get pregnant at 35 but your body isn’t listening. All that stress that you’ve had being a career woman is finally catching up. It is frustrating, isn’t it? You now have this feeling that it’s too late now. So regrets start to come in and you start to fight with your husband out of sheer frustration. In the process, your sex life suffers and that makes everything harder.
This is why getting pregnant at 35 is hard. It’s because everything piles up and it seems as if the whole universe is conniving to stop you from conceiving. A lot of women have this problem if you can take comfort in that. So you probably spent hours and hundreds of dollars reading and buying books only to end up with thousands of useless tips.
My advice is to search through reviews for books on pregnancy from places such as amazon.com. Because so many people use this website, you will get a good idea of the best books to buy on the topic. Also, see a doctor if you are having problems conceiving.